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Spend more time with the family: The support, sense of wellbeing and love we get from our family is different from the support system given by our friends. The love and acceptance we get from our relatives is unquestioning and all-encompassing, but at least initially, we should not talk to family members about hubby’s infidelity, as we talk about it to friends. However, we need our family at this critical juncture of our lives.

Spending time with close family will definitely help us think clearly about future actions. Don’t let the children suffer: “If I ever find out that my husband has been a cheating spouse to me, I’ll tell the children and turn them against him!” my young friend told me, her voice full of passion even as she imagined the scenario. My friend loved her husband deeply, but always felt unsure of him because he was very handsome and worked in TV serials.